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What I learned after 2+ months off social media
LF Newsletter #141: KB training transforms your body, nutrition & mortality, and having fun while working out

Hey there - it’s Don.
Happy Friday!
I hope you’ve had a great week.
This past Monday, I did the Murph with some guys from my church.
1 mile run, 100 pull-ups, 200 push-ups, 300 body squats, and 1 mile run.
(With a 20 pound weight vest).
This is what walking has felt like this week.

Good times. And even better fellowship.
Let’s jump into today’s newsletter!
🔎 What’s Inside
What I learned after 2+ months off social media
Kettlebell training can transform your body
Ultra-processed foods linked to mortality
TJ with Refined Iron
16 delicious high protein foods
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💪 Deep Dive
Click here to read the article on the Layman’s Fitness Website
What I Learned After 2+ Months Off Social Media
One night in January around 7pm, my kids were zooming around the kitchen.
But I wasn’t zooming with them.
Instead, I was leaning over the kitchen counter, transfixed on my smartphone, and doomscrolling through Instagram.
My 3-year-old tugged on my shorts and asked me to play with her.
And I absentmindedly told her I was busy and to wait just a minute.
She frowned with disappointment, but then ran off to rejoin her sisters.
Once she left and I realized what I said, I froze.
As a dad, it’s embarrassing to admit that moment actually happened.
But it did.
This 7pm doomscrolling had found its way into my daily routine.
So, I decided to take a month off social media (Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, & X).
That month turned into two.
Here’s what I learned in those two months off.
There were some surprising health impacts.
I walked more
The first month I averaged 11,000 steps per day.
The second month I averaged 17,000 steps per day.
I found my time for movement.
My sleep consistency improved
The amount I slept didn’t change much (~7.5 hours).
But my sleeping window became way more consistent.
Not scrolling social media in the evening right before bed was a significant factor there.
I was more active with my kids
7pm became a time for family memories.
We went for family walks (we go for one most nights now).
We played board games (my 3-year old smoked us at Uno one evening).
We invented the “couch game” (chase and toss the kids on the couch one at a time… it’s now their favorite).
And here were some surprising non-health related impacts.
My business grew
As someone who runs an online business, hopping off social media was a major initial concern.
But my business grew in the first month I was off. All from referrals.
And the higher growth made me rethink entirely how I use the online space for my business.
It helped my marriage
My wife and I got off social media together for those few months.
One night as we were getting ready for a family walk, she turned to me with a smile and said “I think you like me more”.
My family spent less money
We spent the least amount of money (per month) than we have in years.
This made me realize how much comparison, materialism, and advertising really does influence my purchasing decisions.
Burn the boats?
I logged back on social media in April. But I have not used it much at all.
Frankly, I’m still thinking through the utility of social media. I don’t think I have an answer yet.
As an optimist, I tend to see the best in things (to a fault).
I still believe there is some good social media can do.
But I’m far less optimistic about social media than I was 4 months ago.
When it comes to health, there are too many disadvantages in using social media to ignore.
What do you think about social media’s utility?
Friend, foe, or somewhere in the middle?
Hit reply and let me know.
🔎 Finds
Here are some of my favorite finds/resources this week.
Adam Sinicki, who runs the Bioneer YouTube channel, does a great job responding to common criticisms against kettlebells.
But the best support for his arguments were the hundreds of comments below the video sharing the kettlebell love.
Sometimes I get on YouTube just for the comments 😂
For every 10% increase in ultra-processed food consumption, the risk of all-cause mortality increases by 2.7%.
In the U.S., that’s more than 124,000 preventable deaths per year.
This reminds me to focus on eating single-ingredient, whole foods.
I got connected with TJ a few months back.
He runs Refined Iron, where he helps guys struggling in marriage find hope, build resilience, and achieve restoration.
He has some really helpful resources, particularly his free assessment.
Some tasty staples: eggs, chicken, cottage cheese, Greek yogurt, and fish.
Some good reminders: quinoa, turkey breast, and shellfish
Then some I’ve never tried: Ezekiel bread
🏆 Client Corner
Luis dropped 30 pounds, doubled his strength with kettlebells, and boosted his energy.
A few months after he hit his goals and finished the program, here’s the message he sent me.
“Hey bro, I thought you would get a kick out of this. This might be surprising but now I think I am starting to feel like it’s fun to workout.
Today I tried the deadbug with the kettlebell and it looked like it was going to be fun and it was.
You have no idea how foreign this concept of having fun working out is for me.
Yesterday the Lord gave me strength to preach twice and stay up late until 1am. Never could have done that if I wasn’t working out”
Makes me smile to hear the words “fun” and “working out” in the same sentence.
Kettlebells have that effect.
👍 Ready to have some fun too?
If you’re ready to transform your health and have fun while doing it, check out LF Coaching.
I’ll see you next Friday.
Be strong,
Don
P.S. Announcement coming your way about LF Coaching next week.
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